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Self-Care Ideas to Refuel & Reconnect
Concrete practices for when you're feeling depleted or disconnected There’s a particular kind of exhaustion that doesn’t get fixed by a...
sarahbeth44
May 1, 20254 min read


Grieving the Loss of a Beloved Animal
For many of us, animals aren’t just companions — they become part of the fabric of our daily lives. They witness our hardest seasons and...
sarahbeth44
Apr 28, 20255 min read


Beyond Being "Good": A Guide to Claiming Authenticity, Agency, and Autonomy
For many women, the pressure to be "good" started before they could even name it. Being labeled a "good girl" meant praise, approval, and...
sarahbeth44
Apr 2, 20255 min read


The Hidden Cost of Holding It In: What Jackie Robinson’s Story Teaches Us About Suppressed Emotions
When we talk about Jackie Robinson, we often focus on his strength, his dignity, his unshakable composure as he broke baseball’s color...
sarahbeth44
Mar 29, 20253 min read


Memory Trauma: Why You Can’t Remember and Why That Makes Sense
Why Memory Gets Foggy After Trauma If you’ve ever wondered why you can’t remember large portions of your childhood or why certain...
sarahbeth44
Mar 26, 20254 min read


ADHD's Influence on Anxiety & Depression
Imagine living with a brain that feels like it's constantly running a marathon while simultaneously trying to solve a Rubik's cube in the...
sarahbeth44
Mar 4, 20254 min read


Get to Know Your Dissociation: Understanding, Managing, and Moving Forward
Dissociation can feel like slipping away from yourself, a numbing or zoning out that sometimes happens before you even realize it. For...
sarahbeth44
Feb 25, 20254 min read


Beyond the Fraud Feelings: Exploring Imposter Syndrome
You're sitting in a meeting, surrounded by colleagues. Someone compliments your recent work, but instead of feeling proud, your internal...
sarahbeth44
Feb 23, 20253 min read


Grieving the Childhood You Never Had: Navigating the Loss of an Emotionally Absent Parent
Grief is not always about someone dying. Sometimes grief begins when you realize what you didn’t receive. A parent may have been physically present in the home, but emotionally difficult to reach. Maybe they worked hard, paid bills, packed lunches, showed up at events, or made sure things looked okay from the outside. And still, inside the relationship, something important may have been missing. Comfort may have been inconsistent. Repair may have been rare. Your feelings may
sarahbeth44
Feb 18, 202512 min read


Building the Relationship You’ve Never Seen: A Guide for Couples Creating Something New
If you’ve never seen a truly healthy relationship up close, it makes sense that “healthy” might feel unfamiliar, maybe even impossible....
sarahbeth44
Feb 18, 20253 min read


Learning to Trust Red Flags, Green Flags, and Yourself
After leaving an emotionally abusive relationship, it’s natural to feel unsure about trust—both in others and in yourself. You might find...
sarahbeth44
Feb 16, 20255 min read


Social Anxiety and the Three-Part Spiral: Before, During, and After the Interaction
You’re about to walk into a social event—maybe it’s a work gathering, a party, or just a casual coffee meetup. Your brain is already...
sarahbeth44
Feb 7, 20254 min read


"Landmine Learning": Navigating Intimacy When Your Partner Has a Sexual Trauma History
Intimacy can feel like a battlefield when the person you love has experienced sexual trauma. You step forward with warmth and care, only...
sarahbeth44
Feb 5, 20254 min read


Am I Like Them? Navigating the Fear of Having a Personality Disorder When Raised by Someone Who Did
If you grew up with a parent who had a personality disorder, you may carry a quiet (or not-so-quiet) fear deep inside: What if I’m like them? It makes sense. You’ve seen firsthand how confusing, painful, and destabilizing it is to be in a relationship with someone who twists reality, struggles with accountability, or cycles through explosive emotions and icy withdrawal. Maybe you’ve spent your whole life bracing against their moods, trying to predict the unpredictable. And no
sarahbeth44
Feb 4, 20254 min read


Protest Behaviors: From Reactivity to Connection
When we feel disconnected from someone we love, it can trigger something deep and primal within us. For some, this can look like reaching...
sarahbeth44
Jan 28, 20254 min read


When Clients Apologize for Things That Are Actually GREAT Therapy Moments
“I’m sorry, I’m bouncing around.” Life isn’t a series of tidy chapters; it’s a mosaic of moments, memories, and meaning. When clients let...
sarahbeth44
Jan 13, 20253 min read


Chasing and Retreating: How the Pursuer-Withdrawer Dynamic Impacts Relationships
Relationships often fall into familiar patterns, especially under stress. One common dynamic is one partner withdrawing while the other...
sarahbeth44
Jan 8, 20254 min read


Navigating Challenging Grandparent Dynamics with a New Baby
When a new baby arrives, it’s natural for grandparents to want to be involved. However, if grandparents struggle with personality...
sarahbeth44
Jan 1, 20254 min read


When Perfection Falls Short: Moving from Idealization to Authentic Connection in Relationships
If you’ve ever found yourself swept up in the early excitement of a new relationship, then you know the feeling of seeing your partner...
sarahbeth44
Dec 19, 20245 min read


Navigating Changing Realities: Life Between the Poles of Bipolar Disorder
When you’re living with bipolar disorder, the very fabric of what feels like “reality” can shift depending on where you are in your mood...
sarahbeth44
Dec 17, 20244 min read
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