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When “Who Initiates” Feels Like a Minefield: Why Initiation Styles Matter in Long-Term Relationships
In long-term relationships, the question of “who starts things” may feel small — but it can carry more emotional freight than either...
sarahbeth44
5 days ago7 min read


When Control Feels Safer Than Connection: Withholding Sex After Trauma
Let’s talk about something tender, especially in the context of sexual trauma recovery. For some people who've experienced sexual harm in...
sarahbeth44
Sep 264 min read


Signal, Don’t Silence: Taking Space Without Creating Distance
In close relationships, the need for space can feel confusing -- both to the one who needs it, and to the one on the receiving end. For...
sarahbeth44
Sep 243 min read


Askers vs. Guessers: The Communication Style Clash You’ve Probably Felt
If you’ve ever felt blindsided when someone asked you for something you’d never dream of asking for yourself, or frustrated when someone...
sarahbeth44
Sep 203 min read
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