Figuring out who you are and what you believe in can feel exhilarating in theory – and completely destabilizing in practice. Especially if you grew up in a high-control religious environment, where every decision once came pre-approved by someone else’s version of right and wrong. For many people leaving that world, it’s not just about changing beliefs – it’s about realizing you never really had full ownership of your life. What you wore, what music you listened to, who you d